CHOOSE TO BE THE STAR IN YOUR OWN LIFE
Recently, a client complained that she felt like a bit-part player in her life. Everything great, she said, happened to her friends, but she felt life never delivered what she wanted. Life is something...
Category: Choice
Having a bad day? Get yourself out of a wobble
Today, I had a wobble! That’s what I call it when I wake up and feel a bit rubbish – it’s going to be a bad day! I lay in bed a while and...
WHEN PLANS GO AWRY
You know that blissful moment before your best-laid plans go awry? That was me having a lie-in this week on the last day of my holiday! I heard my phone ring, but didn’t get...
Virtuous Circles of Attention, Thinking and Feeling
Have you ever considered how entwined our attention, thoughts and feelings are? It can be like self-determining vicious or virtuous circles. Let me give you an example of what I mean. At the weekend,...
YOU GET WHAT YOU SETTLE FOR
I love that line from the movie Thelma and Louise, where Louise, a pragmatic kind of woman, utters her philosophy of life in one phrase: “You get what you settle for.” Back in the...
FEAR AND STRESS – FUD AND FOMO
There seems to be a lot of fear about. Recently, I’ve learned two new terms: FUD meaning Fear, Uncertainty and Doubt; and FOMO meaning Fear Of Missing Out. It seems as if our lives...
TODAY IS A GIFT. LOVE YOUR PRESENT
It never ceases to amuse me that we forget just what a miracle life is. Consider, if you will, that some sticky white stuff mixes in the dark with a bunch of cells called...
NEAR DEATH EXPERIENCES – WHAT IF THIS IS HEAVEN?
I’ve read some reports recently of near death experiences, and it reminded me of my own back in the pounding surf near Tulum in Mexico all those years ago. I was barely thigh deep...
GIVE WHAT YOU THINK IS MISSING IN THE WORLD
Every morning I switch on my laptop and I get inspiring messages from my friend, Kath Temple, loving messages from Mastin Kipp, heartening messages from Bridget Clapham, provoking messages from Alex Sinclair, thoughtful messages...